Love and infatuation are all good but you have to be practical as well when it comes to marrying someone.
There are certain traits that you have to be wary of because they can make your life hell after marriage when you start living together.
So here are 5 types of men or women you should not marry and save yourself from unwanted misery!
1. A liar
He/she lies sometimes and is rather secretive. “But I love her/him”. NO! Never marry someone who is too secretive even with you. These kinds of people at times hide big ugly secrets which can turn your life upside down. At times, pathological liars lie so much that they start believing in them as if it is reality. Not just people involved but even you will get hurt eventually because truth always prevails. And we don’t know what worms are there under that hidden rock.
There are beings that say something else but do something else. As Shehnaaz Gill once said on Bigg Boss – “Twaada kutta Tommy, saada kutta kutta?” It literally means what you do is fine but when we do the same it is judged and is wrong. You have to marry this person, it is not a momentary thing. So be very careful and see for yourself. It gets irritating after a while because the hypocrisy can come down to you on a personal level as well.
3. Playing victim
There is a whole big category of people who whine all the time. They play victim and are rather very negative. If someone hurt them in the past, they do not let it go and it still affects them. Now they will not keep that to themselves. They will keep saying that whatever mistakes they are making today is due to someone else. Their victim walls are too high and you really do not want to jump that barbed wire several feet above.
4. Me, mine and myself
Oh these narcissistic people are a pain. In the beginning some people find this interesting, see it as confidence and even cute, but eventually you will want to run away. They think that the world revolves around them and they are the point of gravity, the center of the universe. They are “never wrong” and well, you will not be in their list EVER!
5. The unsure
Such people suck the emotions out of you and even if they marry you, they will always be unsure about the commitment. They are always on the fence about you, no matter what you do. They are that negativity you must avoid, for your own well being.